I have reached out to a number of dominant women over the years. Some bothered to get back in touch, most did not. Maybe it was just a numbers game, statistically, I would find Her given enough time.
But here is the odd thing to throw in the mix ... i didn't really know what i was looking for when contacting Mistress Manda. She was attractive, attached and seemed to enjoy some of the same kinks that i did. Good start. But as i learned more about Her, as She helped me to understand my real needs, it became clear that i wasnt looking for what i thought i was. It was so much more. And this Beautiful Goddess responded back to me. And took the time to get to know me. And seems the absolute perfect fit for me.
Maybe it was numbers ... Maybe. Maybe it was something more. Should i bother questioning it though? i guess at the end of the day, no. She is here and that is all that matters.
I quite enjoy your scientific take on what others would call fate. I Myself believe we create our own destiny. The daily detailed choices we make lead us to where we are and where we will go in the big picture of life.
ReplyDeleteAs far as two people 'finding' each other... I don't believe for one instant that in a wold of 8 billion people there is ONE that is your soulmate...if you don't find them or settle for someone else you're doomed to be lonely and unsatisfied for the rest of your life.
Now, that doesn't mean I don't believe that love is deep and the connection of a soulmate very real. Again, it's the result of little decisions we make along the way, how we portray ourselves and how we view others that lead us to the people in our lives that add to it or take away from it.
For you and I specifically... The little decisions we made in our lives to bring us to the place we were at in order to communicate brought us together (I find it fascinating looking back... six months went by between your attempt to reach out to Me and My reply...that's quite a bit of time really.) Once we were brought together the rest has been chemistry, connection, desire, intrigue, lust, curiosity, communication, and ultimately love.
My sweet pet, I am here as are you. If I did believe in Kismet, fate, or destiny I'd have to thank her and offer homage or tribute for bringing us together. you're the dream I've had a very long time that's finally becoming a reality and in truth the reality blows the dream out of the water. I don't need to dream any more... the reality of you is so much greater than any dream I could have had.
Mistress always has a way of making my thoughts more complete. Thank You. i tend to always feel bad that my posts are short and sweet. A habit of the way i tend to write. Tear away the excess and stay lean and focused. But Mistress adds more flavor to my thoughts. Makes them dance off the page. Thank You.
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